May 7, 2021

How to Survive A Pre-Wedding Shoot

The past weekend, Deji and I embarked on an interesting venture. taking our first set of 'official' announcement pictures (if you don't count our registry pictures that is. And I don't).
April 30, 2021

What do you and your plants have in common?!

How to grow (also…your plants?!) I cannot believe it’s already April (well May in a sneeze). If you’re an active advocate for growth and change, you […]
March 4, 2021

VLOG:What Happened in February

I love VLOGS. I think it's so interesting getting a look into other people's lives. Maybe I'm just nosy? Maybe?
March 4, 2021

Do I really need a planner?

When you get engaged, everything starts happening seemingly fast (unless like me, you've been casually making little wedding related decisions even before you got engaged) The first thing everyone tells you is that you need to pick your wedding planner*.
February 14, 2021

A True Love Story

Kind of like Christmas, Valentine’s Day can be borderline toxic when love is getting shoved down your throat with promotions in stores, social media romances, your sister getting 1000 roses. Yes, Valentine’s Day is something we all have to sit through. It’s hard spending any holiday alone but why does this one hit a little different? Why is that you’re great being on your own January, March and all the other months but when February rolls around, the torture of V Day begins?
February 13, 2021

Valentine’s Day Plans (last minute)

You may be thinking to yourself! ‘OMG! It’s too late to plan anything for valentine’s Day!’ and you’re wrong! In no order to best to worst, here are some cute last minute Valentine’s Day gifts and treats!
February 8, 2021

5 steps to Loving your [Natural] Hair

Loving your hair, like loving any individual takes work. It takes waking up everyday, seeing a cotton ball on your head and saying ‘You know what? You may be an iron sponge but you’re MY iron sponge’. Here’s how we are going to get there!
February 4, 2021


September 2nd, 2020 Right now, I’m writing as Bella from the past. The one that doesn’t know the location of her white wedding, is torn between […]
February 1, 2021
Skin care for dry skin

7 Steps to surviving Harmattan

Tis the season to be dry, yes; but for some of us, it’s the season to be chronically dry. I mean, itching your dry skin till you bleed DRY, or hands constantly digging in your hair to reach your scalp DRY. If you know what I’m talking about, then this one's for you. And for me. For you and I.
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